What is Parental Alienation?

Parental Alienation is considered emotional abuse to a child. It is a very serious situation. It can affect a child's performance in school and the alienated parents performance at work. Parental alienation works for no one. Parental alienation looks like your child intentionally being kept away from you. If you have ever asked to see your child and have been told no, on multiple occasions, this can also potentially be parental alienation. Most court documents that define parenting time, will give a clear schedule for regular Visitation as well as visitation during holidays.

Parental alienation is when one parent shows unnecessary negativity toward the other parent and turns their childs emotions against the other parent. It is a manipulation tactic that one parent uses to make your child feel like they don't want to be with you. Even if your child used to reach out to you wanting to be with you, when alienated, the parent who has physical custody may make the child feel like they have to choose between loving you and loving them. They may also tell the child that being with them is better than being with you. In this situation, to an unsuspecting child, this action by the parent could make them feel that this is true. The truth is, that your child deserves both parents.

Here are some clear indications that you are being alienated from your child:

• You're being Denied visitation
• They're interfering with the communication between you and your child
• Having your child call their spouse "mom/dad"
• Them telling the child that you don't love them
• Using derogatory language towards you in front of the child
• Denying school access to records/meetings
• Ignoring reasonable communication with you

If you are experiencing these things, consult with an attorney immediately. If you cannot afford one, and legal aide was unable to help you, check back regularly for a list of attorneys that accept payment plans by state. It is in the best interest of your child for them to be raised by an adult who understands the importance of co-parenting and how it can positively impact the child. Show your child that it is ok to love both parents and most importantly, don't give up.

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